In all my years of helping people create more abundance in their lives, this issue keeps cropping up again and again:
How the heck can you create abundance unless you have confidence?
I still don’t have an answer for this – but here’s a solution: build the confidence you need to succeed in any area of life.
Start with these free confidence tips, with my blessings and best wishes.
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You have every reason for confidence. You are greater than you know.
“Your worst enemy cannot harm you as much as your own unguarded thoughts.” – Gautama Buddha
It’s hard to gain or keep confidence when you allow painful thoughts to chip away at your spirit day after day.
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Enjoy, my friend!
Wishing you a wonderful day, today and every day.
You deserve it.
Stop letting resentment suck away your confidence
Do you realize that regret and resentment drain your confidence and energy?
If you would like to stop doing that now, forgiveness needs to happen.
If that sounds crazy or silly to you, check this out:
Some folks think forgiveness is for wimps, but Gandhi – who knew about a bit about courage – tells us,
“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”
Strangely enough, when you find the strength to forgive, it gives you more confidence and power in every area of your life. That’s because everything is connected to everything else, on account of we’re all One.
Go forth with confidence, my friend, knowing that you never walk alone.
You get better results when you put your faith in love rather than fear.
In a world where anything can happen, you need confidence now more than ever just to keep putting one foot in front of the other.
If you’ve lost faith in yourself (or never had it), check out this video.
Let go of any belief that if you have faith in yourself and do the right thing, nothing bad will happen to you.
That belief only creates suffering, because that’s not how life works.
This is how life works: Stuff happens.
You get through it by putting one foot in front of the other.
So, choose to believe that if you have faith in yourself, you will be able to handle whatever life brings your way.
You have more courage, strength, and wisdom than you know.
I believe in you.
Go well.
Confidence draws people like catnip
When you stop doing this, amazing things can happen
When Sean turns six years old, he begs for piano lessons.
His father George agrees to hire a teacher on a trial basis for one month.
George listens in as Sean’s fingers touch the keys and slowly play “Chopsticks.”
When Sean hits a sour note, his father winces. “Can’t even play ‘Chopsticks,’ George mutters to himself. “This will be a waste of money.”
The piano teacher, Mrs. Jones, tells Sean’s parents he had great potential. Sean’s mother Amy agrees to pay for her son’s lessons when George says he will fire Mrs. Jones after her month’s trial has ended.
“Dad, I’ve been accepted into Juilliard!” Sean whoops, waving the letter of acceptance at George.
“What?! You can’t expect me to pay for that!” George roars.
“You don’t have to! I’ve been given a full scholarship, Dad – you don’t have to pay a dime!” Sean takes his father’s hands as if to lift him up and dance him around the room.
George stays glued to his seat. “What’s the matter with those Juilliard people?” he growls. “Since when do they give out scholarships to kids who can’t even play ‘Chopsticks’?”
“Dad, I just had to tell you the wonderful news!” Sean shouts into his phone. “My opera won the Pulitzer Prize!”
“No way!” George snarls. “They must have really lowered their standards, giving out Pulitzers to kids who can’t play ‘Chopsticks.’”
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What do you think about a father like George, who keeps throwing Sean’s youthful errors into his face?
Do you think George believes shaming Sean has spurred him to greater heights of accomplishment?
Do you think Sean would achieve less or more if he had his father’s support?
Do you talk to yourself the way George talks to Sean?
This is the #1 way you sabotage yourself
When you shame yourself, confidence and motivation jump out the window. Inspiration drains away. A part of you dies.
Do you think you would accomplish less or more if you stopped shaming yourself over mistakes you made years ago – or five minutes ago?
Would you like to stop shaming yourself now?
If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now.
Inhale, taking a deep breath. Imagine pure white light filling the center of your mind, the center of your heart and the base of your spine.
Exhale, imagining the white light spreading out to fill your entire body, being, and field of consciousness.
Good!
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It can be hard to get clarity if part of you believes having clarity will trigger scary changes in your life.
If you tend to feel confused about what you want or how to get it …
Chances are you have unconscious beliefs that if clarity happens, disaster will ensue.
It’s not your fault
If you’re like most people, you have limiting beliefs lurking beneath the surface of your mind that you don’t even know you have.
All you know is, you want clarity – and it’s just not happening.
Frustrating, right?
It may be that your unconscious mind blocks your clarity because it believes something like:
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Imagine shimmering golden light shining down through the top of your head and filling your body.
Notice how you feel.
Good job! Thank you!
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What would you do if you had clarity? Please share your thoughts in the comment box below … and have a great day!
If indecision keeps you stuck, check this out
Wouldn’t it be great if you could make up your mind about the important stuff – like your work, your purpose, or your relationship – with ease and grace?
Clarity makes that possible.
First, let’s get clear about what clarity is.
It’s knowing:
When you have clarity, your life gets easier right away because …
Decisions become a no-brainer
When you know what you want to be, do, and have, you can examine every choice through the lens of: “Does this option take me closer to, or further from, what I want?”
If it takes you further from what you want, you say “No” to that choice.
If it takes you closer to what you want, you say “Yes” to that choice.
If you’re not sure, flip a coin – heads for Yes, tails for No.
Whichever way you hope the coin comes up, you have your answer.
Your hope reveals what you truly want.
Choose what you want with confidence, knowing that it wants you as much as you want it.
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Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend.
May this day bring you many delightful surprises!
You lose touch with yourself when you lose sight of your dreams
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It can be hard to have clarity if part of you believes clarity is a really bad idea.
If you tend to feel confused about what you want or how to get it, chances are you have unconscious beliefs blocking your ability to set and reach goals that are meaningful to you.
It’s not your fault
If you’re like most people, you grew up hearing “No!” a lot – from parents, teachers, big brothers and other authority figures.
Maybe you stopped asking for what you want because you knew your request would be refused – so why bother to ask?
Maybe you even pretended you didn’t want anything, to avoid the pain and shame of yet another “No.”
Repressing desires that you feel sure will go unsatisfied is a normal way of protecting yourself from disappointment.
The downside: you lose yourself when you lose touch with your dreams and desires.
So, if you have trouble getting clear about your dreams or goals, it may be because a very strong, smart, loving part of you believes that if you get clarity, something bad will happen.
Here’s the bottom line
It’s impossible to create a fulfilling life unless you know what fulfills you.
This involves knowing what you want, need, and value – the first step to turning your dreams into your reality.
Part of you already knows. More clarity will come when confusion stops serving you.
You see, getting clarity can seem scary if your wounded inner child believes clarity = disappointment, rejection, or shame. What sane person wants that?
So, none of your blocks to clarity will go away until your unconscious mind believes it is safe for you to know what you want and how to get it.
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Notice how you feel.
Good job! Thank you!
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Would you like to get clarity, so you can start creating a richly fulfilling life, one inspired step at a time?
It can be hard to lift away your blocks to clarity all by yourself.
The good news is, you don’t have to.
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