Would you rather be right, or be happy?

The high cost of saying “I told you so”

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It feels so good when you’re right, doesn’t it?

Cynthia knows that feeling well.

She saved her daughter Heather from pulling a prank that might have cost her the chance to get into a good college.

She saved her husband Tom from asking his boss for a raise at the wrong time

She saved her colleagues from turning in a report with incorrect data that would have cost the company thousands of dollars.

She’s Wonder Woman, right?

With a track record like that, you would think Cynthia would be a happy woman.

Yet, she feels drained from putting out fires for other people. While her family and co-workers rely on her, Cynthia senses they don’t like her very much, and that hurts. Where is their gratitude for her efforts on their behalf?

In fact, their gratitude melts away in the heat of shame when Cynthia reminds them, with a look or a word, “I told you so.”

It’s hard to love someone who would rather be right than care about how stupid you feel when she puts you in the wrong.

The heart of the matter

In her heart, Cynthia worries that if her loved ones trust themselves more and rely on her less, they won’t love or need her anymore. So, she tries to make herself indispensable, and only exhausts herself in the process.

I have done that. How about you?

If so, would you like your Higher Power to:

  • Show you why you are lovable and valuable just as you are right now
  • Reveal why your life has meaning and purpose exactly as it is right now
  • Fill your heart with all the love you ever wanted and never got
  • Unwind your attachment to rightness and replace it with lovingkindness
  • Show you who you are and how to live your life knowing you matter, just like everyone else

If so, please say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now, and feel the light of love gently shining on every cell in your body.

Very good!

Notice how you feel.

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If this Abundance Activation helped you in any way, you are lovingly invited to join the Abundance Healing Circle “Happiness Here and Now,” where you will experience many awakenings like these on Tuesday August 8.

Click here for details and registration for this powerful and empowering online event.

In the meantime, thank you for allowing me to support you a little bit today. Wishing you all the best. You deserve it!

Where do you need support right now? Please share your thoughts below. I care.

 

The #1 Cause of Stress and Suffering

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Do any of these thoughts sound familiar?

“If he cared about me, he would show up on time!”

“What idiot is holding up the traffic? I’m running late! Get moving, people!”

“Another night in front of the TV with a microwaved dinner … I am so lame …”

Thoughts like these may arise from different situations, but they have one thing in common:

They spring from an unconscious bedrock belief called “Something is Wrong.” 

Because this belief is rooted in nothing real, it creates so much free-floating anxiety that even the tiniest bump in the road triggers your brain’s stress response; and leaves you suffering from exhaustion, irritability, and resentment that life is so freaking hard.

We can start healing your body, mind, heart and soul from the effects of stress and suffering right now, if you wish.

Would like your Higher Power to …

  • Show you the true nature and purpose of life, so you can peacefully release your resistance to it
  • Help you understand why things happen, in a way that makes sense to you
  • Reveal the blessings available to you in every moment
  • Show you what happiness looks like, sounds like, tastes like, and feels like
  • Illuminate your understanding of why you are safe, worthy and ready to touch happiness right now

If so, please say “Yes” out loud now and sense light awakening in every cell of your body and spreading out beyond your skin to the farthest reaches of the galaxy.

Very good!

Notice how you feel.

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relaxation-cool-water-haley-phelps-119782If healings like these help you feel better, you are lovingly invited to join the Abundance Healing Circle “Happiness Here and Now,” where you will experience many such healings.

In this highly interactive online Abundance class, we will do live healings to:

  • Transform the love/hate relationship with life that keeps you stressed and suffering
  • Release the burden of your judgments against yourself and others, so you can easily make a fresh start
  • Set you up for success with a simple, do-able Abundance Activity you can use to continue increasing your happiness

Let’s just imagine …

How much peace of mind will you enjoy when you stop fighting life and feel how much life loves you?

How fulfilled will you feel when your relationships smooth out and become more harmonious?

What new adventures await you as you decide to live your life full-out?

Join our Abundance Healing Circle on August 8 and find out! I would love it if you joined us.

In addition, to support you as we go into deep waters, you will receive a special rate on private sessions with me.

If this sounds good to you, click here for more details and registration.

In the meantime, much love and many blessings to you!

 

Want to feel happier right now?

You are always just one thought away from joy

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While you may want to be happy, another part of you may believe desiring happiness is frivolous or selfish when there is so much suffering in the world.

Yet because we all stand united in Collective Consciousness or the Quantum Field or Divine Mind – whatever you call it – the happiness of one increases the happiness of all. A rising tide of joy lifts all boats.

Finding and following your bliss, then, makes the world a better place for everyone.

Let’s take a look at how happiness works

  • Cathy felt sure she would be happy, if only Bob would fall in love with her.
  • One night, Bob tenderly held Cathy in his arms and said, “I love you.”
  • After her initial burst of joy, Cathy decided she would be happy if only Bob asked her to marry him.
  • Bob soon proposed, and Cathy was thrilled until she started thinking she would be happy if only Bob took her to Paris for their honeymoon.
  • In Paris, Cathy had a wonderful honeymoon until she started thinking she would be happy if only …

And on it went, with Cathy growing increasingly dissatisfied and confused. Why was it that, even when she got what she wanted, it never made her happy for more than five minutes?

What is up with that?

As Dale Carnegie reminds us, “It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.”

You can have more happiness in your life today, simply by shifting the direction of your thoughts toward the present.

For instance, you could choose to enjoy life’s simple pleasures right now, instead of holding your happiness hostage to the fulfillment of dreams that may or may not come true.

As we see with Cathy and her falling in love and honeymooning in Paris, the ego-mind takes only a moment to skip from “Yay! I got what I wanted!” to “But what I really want now is …”

The ego-mind dreams up reasons for discontent to direct your focus toward the past or the future because joy can only exist in the present. If you’re happy, you might forget to be afraid; then the ego-mind would lose its dominance over you, which it dreads above all things.

Take back your power

You can short-circuit the ego-mind’s joy-killing process by pausing to enjoy what is in front of you right now. coffee love

Savor the aroma of your coffee. Snuggle into a comfy chair. Give your loved ones caring attention when they tell you about their day.

Let small pleasures like these be happiness enough for the moment, which is all we ever have.

Would you would like to start enjoying the good things in your life here and now? We can do that right now, if you wish.

Instant Healing

Would you like your Higher Power to show you:

  • Why you matter, and why your happiness matters
  • One wonderful thing in your life that can delight you right now
  • How to see a situation that has been bothering you in a new light that inspires you
  • How to see yourself and others with the eyes of unconditional love and acceptance
  • A preview of a blessing coming your way that is ten times better than what you’ve been hoping for

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and sense Limitless Love igniting the nucleus of every atom in your field of consciousness.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it! If it feels right, tell me about it in an email.

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today.

Much love and many blessings to you!

If you would like to experience more fast, powerful healings like these, check this out.

What is one thing that gives you joy? Please share your thoughts in “Comments” below.

 

Recommended Resource

Heal your relationship with yourself, heal your life

“Closer: More Healthy Intimacy” with Karen Abrams

KarenAbrams_075_Web-200x300Master Theta Healer Karen Abrams has been my friend and colleague for years. I love and respect her as a person, a healer and a teacher.

Lately, Karen’s virtual healing circles have focused on creating healthy relationships, within yourself and with the people around you.

She is a phenomenal expert on relationships, and so I’ve been faithfully attending Karen’s healing circles. I always learn a lot and get amazing healings that change my life in magical and unexpected ways.

It’s become clear to me that you need to be in right relationship with yourself before you can be in right relationship with money – and thereby attract it.

So, I’m recommending Karen’s latest healing circle to support you in getting in right relationship with yourself – and thereby with all you desire.

“Closer: More Healthy Intimacy” starts Wednesday, July 5 Click here for more details. I hope you’ll join Karen and I on the call!

How to Allow Abundance into Your Life

Accepting your body helps you attract more abundance

“It doesn’t matter how much you have. It all means nothing if you are not happy with yourself.” – Donald Duck

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Did you know your feelings about your body affect your finances, your romances, and every other part of your life?

That’s because deeply felt, long-held emotional energy attracts that which is like itself. Love attracts love, anger attracts anger, and so forth.

Let’s take a look at your relationship with your body and see how it colors your world:

If you starve yourself to lose weight …

If you stuff yourself with food to fill the emptiness inside …

If you rage that your body has betrayed you by getting hurt or sick …

You can begin healing by recognizing the emotional energy driving these actions – fear, sadness, anger.

All these emotions are normal; everyone feels them at one time or another, including me. It’s okay: Whatever emotions you feel, your Higher Power loves you just the same.

It’s when you hold on to those feelings that things can get sticky. That you can get stuck.

Here’s the deal:

The way you feel about your body reflects the way you feel about yourself.

Your feelings about yourself shape the way you treat yourself …the way others treat you … and the way Money, Love, and Life itself tend to treat you.

When you regard your body with appreciation, compassion, generosity and respect, you open the door for other people, Money, and Life itself to treat you the same way – because we all are One.

In the end, as Donald Duck reminds us, “It doesn’t matter how much you have. It all means nothing if you are not happy with yourself.”

Here’s the fun part:

When you are happy with yourself, golden opportunities fly to you; paths to success open before you; and marvelous people, who think you’re wonderful exactly as you are, find their way to you.

If you would like to set that in motion now, is it okay if your Higher Power shows you:

  • How to recognize the beauty, sacredness and wisdom of your body, exactly as it is right now
  • Why you can feel motivated and excited about making healthful choices, even though you accept your body as it is right now
  • How magnetic you become to money when you appreciate your body as it is right now – and why that is, in ways that make sense to you
  • Why feeling happy with yourself brings more fulfillment, love, prosperity and success than feeling dissatisfied with yourself, in ways you and your ancestors can understand
  • How and why accepting yourself and your body contributes to creating a world that works for everyone

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now. Sense the energy of unconditional love filling your body, mind, heart and soul.

Good!

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today.

Would you like more quick, loving healings like this? Get more info here.

Recommended Resource

See scientific proof of infinite possibilities for you – yes, you, personally

Seven Brief Lessons on Physics” by Carlo RovelliSeven Brief Lessons on Physics

How am I a geek? Let me count the ways:

  1. Theater geek, from my childhood days of cuing my actor father on his lines in plays like “Twelfth Night”
  2. Classic movie geek, from the first time I saw “The Wizard of Oz” on our black-and-white TV
  3. Sci-fi geek, since Miss Miner, my middle-school English teacher, introduced me to Ray Bradbury’s “The Martin Chronicles”

My latest geek-tastic obsession: Quantum Physics.

I never thought I would be a science nerd, but a profound connection exists between quantum physics and the healings you’ve experienced in some of these blog posts.

To support you in the most recent topic, opening to new possibilities, you are lovingly invited to explore the remarkably easy-to-read “Seven Brief Lessons in Physics.”

My takeaway from the book, in a nutshell:

Fewer than 10 types of particles, like electrons and photons, form the basis of everything in and around us, including your body, the Eiffel Tower, the smell of sizzling bacon, and the Orion constellation.

These particles wink in and out of existence at dazzling speed, forming and re-forming and vanishing, until interaction with something summons them into form again.

How does that apply to you attracting money?

Living in an ever-changing Universe means it’s never too late for you to begin prospering.

Even if you’ve never had significant amounts of money before, it’s possible for you to have it now, because those itty-bitty electrons are forever forming a new Now.

When you stop interacting with past events by talking and thinking about them, you free their particles to dissolve into the formlessness from which they came.

This gives you a blank slate upon which you can write your new story of joyful prosperity with loving energy, compassionate thoughts and inspired actions.

Those darling little photons can just as easily form a large, permanent income for you as anything else in the Universe, like a field of vibrant red poppies, or the song “Somewhere Over the Rainbow.”

That is why you are always only a thought away from Abundance.

Author Carlo Rovelli uses stories, pictures and humor as well as data to document the scientific basis for the infinite possibilities, available to us in every moment, that metaphysicians have proclaimed for centuries.

If you have ever wondered whether infinite possibilities truly exist, or they’re just something made up by a woo-woo guru, you will find solid scientific proof of their reality in Seven Brief Lessons on Physics.”

Enjoy!

What book(s) have transformed your ideas about the way life works? Please leave a comment below – I’m always looking for recommendations!

 

The 7th Step to Attract Money

Open to new possibilities

“What is outrageous is not what you ask for. What is outrageous is what you settle for.”

– Alan Cohen

Cohen reminds us that whatever we want – whatever we ask for – there is always more. Nothing is too much to ask for, in our universe full of infinite possibilities.

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I don’t know about you, but I’ve sometimes found my fantasy of something appeals to me more than its nitty-gritty reality – like getting Rolfed (ouch!) or eating sea-urchin sushi (ewww!).

When our bold, brave step out of our comfort zone lands us in an icky pile of goo, it’s tempting to run right back into our familiar little world. We decide, “It’s scary out there. I’m staying in here.”

Trouble is, doing the same old, same old only creates more of the same old, same old.

if you want something different – like more money – you need to do something different.

Yucky previous experiences may have convinced your ego-mind there’s zero payoff in trying something new … that things never work out for you … or that you tried X before and it didn’t work, so there’s no point trying it again.

There’s just one thing the ego-mind overlooks: Every moment is brand-new. Whatever happened before has nothing to do with what is possible for you now.

Something fresh, new and wonderful can happen in this very moment, if you’re open to it.

Would you be willing to open to new possibilities for attracting money now?

Is it okay if your Higher Power shows you:

  • Three joyful ways you can attract money from where you are with what you have right now
  • Why you can now make gobs of money doing something your parents or peers told you would never bring in a penny
  • How and why and what it feels like to feel safe, normal, comfortable, and clean having lavish amounts of money now
  • Why you can trust yourself with large sums of money now, however you handled it before
  • Why your life can still have meaning and purpose, even after you get everything you ask for

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now. Sense the energy lighting up your brain, your spine, and your heart.

Good!

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today.Much love and many blessings to you!

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Would you like more quick, loving healings like this? Get more info here.

What possibilities would you like to open to now? Please share your thoughts below.