The #1 Belief Blocking Your Abundance

How worthy do you feel?

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“If God had wanted me otherwise, he would have created me otherwise” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Do you know the #1 belief that blocks your abundance … wrecks your happiness … and sabotages your success?

The weird thing is that this belief sounds sort of spiritual – like something only decent, moral people would believe.

In fact, it’s a sneaky ego-mind trick to repel the blessings you’ve been yearning for, because if you felt fulfilled the ego-mind would lose its ability to dominate you through anger, fear, or shame.

The #1 abundance-busting belief:

“I don’t deserve it.”

Variations on this theme include:

  • “I’m not worthy”
  • “I haven’t earned it yet”
  • “I’m not smart enough, good enough, or ready enough to accept the blessings I’ve been calling for”

Many spiritually oriented people look upon feelings of unworthiness as proof of higher consciousness that has evolved beyond egotism and arrogance.

Many religious people believe feeling ashamed of yourself keeps you on the path of virtue and therefore makes you a better person.

Consider this

Judging yourself as unworthy implies your Higher Power made a mistake – that you should be different from the way you are.

It suggests a Divinity with any decent standards would reject you, and so you should reject yourself.

Yet, as Goethe reminds us, if God wanted you otherwise, you would have been created otherwise.

You are already worthy. Period.

You are as God made you, my dear. Only the ego-mind would insist you should be better than that.

Feeling worthy reflects your appreciation for the gifts your Higher Power has given you, like a loving heart, keen intelligence, or a healthy body.

High self-worth is a form of Gratitude – one of the most powerful Abundance-attracters in the Universe.

We can start polishing up your self-worth right now, if you wish.

Would you like your Higher Power to:

  • Show you what really makes you worthy, in relation to what you imagined makes your worthy
  • Help any self-hating ancestors in your DNA to make peace with themselves, so they can support you in making peace with your Self
  • Heal the wounds of heart, mind and soul that made you feel unworthy of the blessings you desire
  • Reveal everything you were meant to learn from feeling undeserving, and making it that you have learned it now, from the highest truth
  • How to know you are still you, even though you clearly perceive your worth and value now

Golden Light_dev-benjamin-222588If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and imagine golden light streaming down upon you.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it!

If you would like to experience more healings like these, check out the new Abundance Healing Circle here.

 

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today.

Much love and many blessings to you!

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How worthy of Abundance do you feel, and why? Please share in the comment box below.

 

 

How much do you want it?

In a universe full of infinite possibilities, anything is possible

Here’s a thought from legendary baseball coach Tommy Lasorda:

The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a person’s determination.

We will move heaven and earth to get what we want in our heart of hearts. Obstacles that seem rock-solid fall away in the face of our single-minded focus.

You’ve heard the stories about mothers who single-handedly lift Mack trucks when their child lies pinned beneath it. Such a feat is impossible – unless you really, really want to do it. Then “Impossible” becomes just a word, rather than a fact.

How about erasing it from your vocabulary and replacing it with “Anything is possible”?

If you would like to do that right now, say “Yes” out loud right now* and feel the energy flowing in through the top of your head.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week. And celebrate it!

That’s your Abundance Activation for today. Enjoy!

* Seriously. This energetic download will only happen with your verbal permission, because we honor your free will. If you want it, say “Yes.”

Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes

Going with the flow helps you cope with life’s surprises

An ancient Hebrew proverb tells us,

Change takes but an instant. It’s the resistance to change that can take a lifetime.

Life by its very nature is a dynamic process, constantly changing.

For instance, millions of cells in your body have died and been replaced since you began reading this post.

Even if we resist change, it will happen anyway – sometimes painfully.

Here’s the weird part: Most of our pain comes from our resistance to change, the part of us that yells, “No! This should not be happening!” – rather than the change itself.

Would you like to change that?

If we allow change without resisting it, we’re swept up in what psychologists call a Flow state – surfing the tide of life with confidence and faith.

Would you like to know how to surf in the flow of life? If so, say “Yes” out loud right now* and feel the energy flowing in through the top of your head.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week. And celebrate it!

That’s your Abundance Activation for today. Enjoy!

If you would like more simple yet powerful healings like these, check this out.

* Seriously. This energetic download will only happen with your verbal permission, because we honor your free will. If you want it, say “Yes.”

What have you done to cope with unexpected changes? Care to share below?

Would you rather be right, or be happy?

The high cost of saying “I told you so”

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It feels so good when you’re right, doesn’t it?

Cynthia knows that feeling well.

She saved her daughter Heather from pulling a prank that might have cost her the chance to get into a good college.

She saved her husband Tom from asking his boss for a raise at the wrong time

She saved her colleagues from turning in a report with incorrect data that would have cost the company thousands of dollars.

She’s Wonder Woman, right?

With a track record like that, you would think Cynthia would be a happy woman.

Yet, she feels drained from putting out fires for other people. While her family and co-workers rely on her, Cynthia senses they don’t like her very much, and that hurts. Where is their gratitude for her efforts on their behalf?

In fact, their gratitude melts away in the heat of shame when Cynthia reminds them, with a look or a word, “I told you so.”

It’s hard to love someone who would rather be right than care about how stupid you feel when she puts you in the wrong.

The heart of the matter

In her heart, Cynthia worries that if her loved ones trust themselves more and rely on her less, they won’t love or need her anymore. So, she tries to make herself indispensable, and only exhausts herself in the process.

I have done that. How about you?

If so, would you like your Higher Power to:

  • Show you why you are lovable and valuable just as you are right now
  • Reveal why your life has meaning and purpose exactly as it is right now
  • Fill your heart with all the love you ever wanted and never got
  • Unwind your attachment to rightness and replace it with lovingkindness
  • Show you who you are and how to live your life knowing you matter, just like everyone else

If so, please say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now, and feel the light of love gently shining on every cell in your body.

Very good!

Notice how you feel.

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If this Abundance Activation helped you in any way, you are lovingly invited to join the Abundance Healing Circle “Happiness Here and Now,” where you will experience many awakenings like these on Tuesday August 8.

Click here for details and registration for this powerful and empowering online event.

In the meantime, thank you for allowing me to support you a little bit today. Wishing you all the best. You deserve it!

Where do you need support right now? Please share your thoughts below. I care.

 

The #1 Cause of Stress and Suffering

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Do any of these thoughts sound familiar?

“If he cared about me, he would show up on time!”

“What idiot is holding up the traffic? I’m running late! Get moving, people!”

“Another night in front of the TV with a microwaved dinner … I am so lame …”

Thoughts like these may arise from different situations, but they have one thing in common:

They spring from an unconscious bedrock belief called “Something is Wrong.” 

Because this belief is rooted in nothing real, it creates so much free-floating anxiety that even the tiniest bump in the road triggers your brain’s stress response; and leaves you suffering from exhaustion, irritability, and resentment that life is so freaking hard.

We can start healing your body, mind, heart and soul from the effects of stress and suffering right now, if you wish.

Would like your Higher Power to …

  • Show you the true nature and purpose of life, so you can peacefully release your resistance to it
  • Help you understand why things happen, in a way that makes sense to you
  • Reveal the blessings available to you in every moment
  • Show you what happiness looks like, sounds like, tastes like, and feels like
  • Illuminate your understanding of why you are safe, worthy and ready to touch happiness right now

If so, please say “Yes” out loud now and sense light awakening in every cell of your body and spreading out beyond your skin to the farthest reaches of the galaxy.

Very good!

Notice how you feel.

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relaxation-cool-water-haley-phelps-119782If healings like these help you feel better, you are lovingly invited to join the Abundance Healing Circle “Happiness Here and Now,” where you will experience many such healings.

In this highly interactive online Abundance class, we will do live healings to:

  • Transform the love/hate relationship with life that keeps you stressed and suffering
  • Release the burden of your judgments against yourself and others, so you can easily make a fresh start
  • Set you up for success with a simple, do-able Abundance Activity you can use to continue increasing your happiness

Let’s just imagine …

How much peace of mind will you enjoy when you stop fighting life and feel how much life loves you?

How fulfilled will you feel when your relationships smooth out and become more harmonious?

What new adventures await you as you decide to live your life full-out?

Join our Abundance Healing Circle on August 8 and find out! I would love it if you joined us.

In addition, to support you as we go into deep waters, you will receive a special rate on private sessions with me.

If this sounds good to you, click here for more details and registration.

In the meantime, much love and many blessings to you!

 

Got Change?

Even when life takes you by surprise, you have more power than you think

Here’s a thought from the great American newscaster and cancer survivor Linda Ellerbee:

There are two types of change: the change we choose, and the change that chooses us.

It’s empowering to choose change and see our lives get richer and deeper as a result.

It’s even more empowering, when change chooses us, to choose how we respond to that change.

We can wail and moan and gnash our teeth – or we can find our way to acceptance by asking, “Show me the blessing here. How does this change benefit me?”

Only when we accept a situation can we see it with clarity and compassion, so we can make wise choices about our best next move.

Would you like to know how to do that right now? If so, say “Yes” out loud right now* and feel the energy flowing in through the top of your head.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week. And celebrate it!

That’s your Abundance Activation for today. Wishing you all the best, now and always!

* Seriously. This energetic download will only go in with your verbal permission, because we honor your free will. If you want it, say “Yes.”

What have you done to adjust to an unexpected change in your life? Please share your wisdom with us below! Thank you.