The #1 Belief Blocking Your Abundance

How worthy do you feel?

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“If God had wanted me otherwise, he would have created me otherwise” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Do you know the #1 belief that blocks your abundance … wrecks your happiness … and sabotages your success?

The weird thing is that this belief sounds sort of spiritual – like something only decent, moral people would believe.

In fact, it’s a sneaky ego-mind trick to repel the blessings you’ve been yearning for, because if you felt fulfilled the ego-mind would lose its ability to dominate you through anger, fear, or shame.

The #1 abundance-busting belief:

“I don’t deserve it.”

Variations on this theme include:

  • “I’m not worthy”
  • “I haven’t earned it yet”
  • “I’m not smart enough, good enough, or ready enough to accept the blessings I’ve been calling for”

Many spiritually oriented people look upon feelings of unworthiness as proof of higher consciousness that has evolved beyond egotism and arrogance.

Many religious people believe feeling ashamed of yourself keeps you on the path of virtue and therefore makes you a better person.

Consider this

Judging yourself as unworthy implies your Higher Power made a mistake – that you should be different from the way you are.

It suggests a Divinity with any decent standards would reject you, and so you should reject yourself.

Yet, as Goethe reminds us, if God wanted you otherwise, you would have been created otherwise.

You are already worthy. Period.

You are as God made you, my dear. Only the ego-mind would insist you should be better than that.

Feeling worthy reflects your appreciation for the gifts your Higher Power has given you, like a loving heart, keen intelligence, or a healthy body.

High self-worth is a form of Gratitude – one of the most powerful Abundance-attracters in the Universe.

We can start polishing up your self-worth right now, if you wish.

Would you like your Higher Power to:

  • Show you what really makes you worthy, in relation to what you imagined makes your worthy
  • Help any self-hating ancestors in your DNA to make peace with themselves, so they can support you in making peace with your Self
  • Heal the wounds of heart, mind and soul that made you feel unworthy of the blessings you desire
  • Reveal everything you were meant to learn from feeling undeserving, and making it that you have learned it now, from the highest truth
  • How to know you are still you, even though you clearly perceive your worth and value now

Golden Light_dev-benjamin-222588If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and imagine golden light streaming down upon you.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it!

If you would like to experience more healings like these, check out the new Abundance Healing Circle here.

 

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today.

Much love and many blessings to you!

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How worthy of Abundance do you feel, and why? Please share in the comment box below.

 

 

Would you rather be right, or be happy?

The high cost of saying “I told you so”

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It feels so good when you’re right, doesn’t it?

Cynthia knows that feeling well.

She saved her daughter Heather from pulling a prank that might have cost her the chance to get into a good college.

She saved her husband Tom from asking his boss for a raise at the wrong time

She saved her colleagues from turning in a report with incorrect data that would have cost the company thousands of dollars.

She’s Wonder Woman, right?

With a track record like that, you would think Cynthia would be a happy woman.

Yet, she feels drained from putting out fires for other people. While her family and co-workers rely on her, Cynthia senses they don’t like her very much, and that hurts. Where is their gratitude for her efforts on their behalf?

In fact, their gratitude melts away in the heat of shame when Cynthia reminds them, with a look or a word, “I told you so.”

It’s hard to love someone who would rather be right than care about how stupid you feel when she puts you in the wrong.

The heart of the matter

In her heart, Cynthia worries that if her loved ones trust themselves more and rely on her less, they won’t love or need her anymore. So, she tries to make herself indispensable, and only exhausts herself in the process.

I have done that. How about you?

If so, would you like your Higher Power to:

  • Show you why you are lovable and valuable just as you are right now
  • Reveal why your life has meaning and purpose exactly as it is right now
  • Fill your heart with all the love you ever wanted and never got
  • Unwind your attachment to rightness and replace it with lovingkindness
  • Show you who you are and how to live your life knowing you matter, just like everyone else

If so, please say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now, and feel the light of love gently shining on every cell in your body.

Very good!

Notice how you feel.

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If this Abundance Activation helped you in any way, you are lovingly invited to join the Abundance Healing Circle “Happiness Here and Now,” where you will experience many awakenings like these on Tuesday August 8.

Click here for details and registration for this powerful and empowering online event.

In the meantime, thank you for allowing me to support you a little bit today. Wishing you all the best. You deserve it!

Where do you need support right now? Please share your thoughts below. I care.

 

The #1 Cause of Stress and Suffering

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Do any of these thoughts sound familiar?

“If he cared about me, he would show up on time!”

“What idiot is holding up the traffic? I’m running late! Get moving, people!”

“Another night in front of the TV with a microwaved dinner … I am so lame …”

Thoughts like these may arise from different situations, but they have one thing in common:

They spring from an unconscious bedrock belief called “Something is Wrong.” 

Because this belief is rooted in nothing real, it creates so much free-floating anxiety that even the tiniest bump in the road triggers your brain’s stress response; and leaves you suffering from exhaustion, irritability, and resentment that life is so freaking hard.

We can start healing your body, mind, heart and soul from the effects of stress and suffering right now, if you wish.

Would like your Higher Power to …

  • Show you the true nature and purpose of life, so you can peacefully release your resistance to it
  • Help you understand why things happen, in a way that makes sense to you
  • Reveal the blessings available to you in every moment
  • Show you what happiness looks like, sounds like, tastes like, and feels like
  • Illuminate your understanding of why you are safe, worthy and ready to touch happiness right now

If so, please say “Yes” out loud now and sense light awakening in every cell of your body and spreading out beyond your skin to the farthest reaches of the galaxy.

Very good!

Notice how you feel.

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relaxation-cool-water-haley-phelps-119782If healings like these help you feel better, you are lovingly invited to join the Abundance Healing Circle “Happiness Here and Now,” where you will experience many such healings.

In this highly interactive online Abundance class, we will do live healings to:

  • Transform the love/hate relationship with life that keeps you stressed and suffering
  • Release the burden of your judgments against yourself and others, so you can easily make a fresh start
  • Set you up for success with a simple, do-able Abundance Activity you can use to continue increasing your happiness

Let’s just imagine …

How much peace of mind will you enjoy when you stop fighting life and feel how much life loves you?

How fulfilled will you feel when your relationships smooth out and become more harmonious?

What new adventures await you as you decide to live your life full-out?

Join our Abundance Healing Circle on August 8 and find out! I would love it if you joined us.

In addition, to support you as we go into deep waters, you will receive a special rate on private sessions with me.

If this sounds good to you, click here for more details and registration.

In the meantime, much love and many blessings to you!

 

Got Change?

Even when life takes you by surprise, you have more power than you think

Here’s a thought from the great American newscaster and cancer survivor Linda Ellerbee:

There are two types of change: the change we choose, and the change that chooses us.

It’s empowering to choose change and see our lives get richer and deeper as a result.

It’s even more empowering, when change chooses us, to choose how we respond to that change.

We can wail and moan and gnash our teeth – or we can find our way to acceptance by asking, “Show me the blessing here. How does this change benefit me?”

Only when we accept a situation can we see it with clarity and compassion, so we can make wise choices about our best next move.

Would you like to know how to do that right now? If so, say “Yes” out loud right now* and feel the energy flowing in through the top of your head.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week. And celebrate it!

That’s your Abundance Activation for today. Wishing you all the best, now and always!

* Seriously. This energetic download will only go in with your verbal permission, because we honor your free will. If you want it, say “Yes.”

What have you done to adjust to an unexpected change in your life? Please share your wisdom with us below! Thank you.

Got summer stress?

Relax in this spa for the soul

If you feel stressed by busy days with too little time for much-needed relaxation … 

How would you like a soothing spa for the soul that leaves you feel refreshed and rejuvenated?

It’s only a click away, when you join the new “Abundance Healing Circle: Happiness Here and Now.”

  • Experience more happiness and joy right away
  • Build a foundation of inner peace that keeps you steady under any circumstances
  • Power up your intuition, so you can trust your inner guidance to reveal the next right step … and the next … and the next

Happiness Begins Within …

So, we’re going to refresh your 12 major Chakras by giving them:

  • A minty-fresh cleansing to revitalize your mind, body, heart and soul
  • A fine-tuned balancing to keep your inner being steady, strong and joyful
  • A glowing expansion so you can more easily connect with the Infinite Love, Truth, Wisdom and Abundance available to you every moment of every day

If this sounds good to you, click here to register.

If you can’t make the live call at 5 p.m. PDT on Tuesday August 8, go ahead and register anyway so you can get the MP3 download. Listen to it whenever you want to relieve stress or anxiety.

In addition, Healing Circle membership qualifies you for discounted Personal Abundance Coaching with me by phone or Skype.

To get the most out of “Happiness Here and Now,” please take a moment to answer the questions on the registration form.

That way, I’ll make sure to address your concerns on the call, whether you attend live or listen to the replay.

Please leave a comment in the box below if you have any questions, will you?

Thank you for taking the time to read this. May Abundance of every kind find its way to you, today and every day.

Who is in Charge of Your Abundance?

Does love or fear drive your decisions?

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“If God is your co-pilot, maybe you should change seats.” – Barbara Hightower

While you may consciously desire prosperity, a more ancient part of your mind fears something bad will happen if you gain wealth.

Flying highThe question is – which part of your mind is in charge? The part that will pilot your journey to abundance … or the part that will zoom you off in a different direction?  

Let’s take a closer look.

Since infinite abundance is your natural state, where does all that financial struggle come from?

It’s generated by the ego-mind. All the attention, energy and focus you gave to your fears allowed it to take over the pilot’s seat in your life.

As Barbara Hightower suggests, if God is your co-pilot, maybe you should change seats.

If you place the ego-mind where it belongs …

It could do its job of keeping you safe, instead of throwing you off-course by going in the direction of your fears rather than your dreams or goals.

Trouble is, the ego-mind likes being in the pilot’s seat; it refuses to give up that position because it believes you will crash and burn if anyone else handles the flying.

The ego-mind also prefers being in charge because it feels less frightened when it has control over things, even though it can never control anything – except you, if you allow it.

Fortunately, this fear-full aspect of your mind can be led to a new way of thinking that will guide you to prosperity and abundance of every kind.

It can be led by you because you are the God of its world. Like a seven-year-old child who adores you, it will do almost anything to please you.

To guide your ego-mind in the direction of your desires, you need to be the pilot.

Taking the lead in your life may seem unnatural or scary to your ego-mind – even though it’s your natural state of being. Your consciousness was designed to guide you toward your deepest desires.

Would you like support in getting comfortable with your position as the pilot in your life? We can start doing that right now, if you wish.

Would you like your Higher Power to show you:

  • What your past and present financial circumstances really mean about you, in relation to what your ego-mind told you they meant
  • All the evidence your ego-mind ignored that proves your innate goodness, innocence, wisdom and worthiness
  • All the evidence your ego-mind rejected that proves you have everything you need inside of you to start prospering right now
  • Why you can trust yourself to make wise and loving choices, even though you become more prosperous every day
  • Why you can trust yourself to take the lead in your life now and what will happen if you do

 

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and sense Infinite Intelligence lighting up the center of your brain and activating an answering light in every cell in your body.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it! If it feels right, tell me about it in an email.

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today. Much love and many blessings to you!

Would you like more quick, loving healings like this? Get more info here.

What needs to happen for you to trust yourself more? Please share your thoughts with me in the comment box below.